It’s easy to turn on a man without touching because… mens. While it sometimes takes women a lot to get in the mood, for dudes, it can just be a thought that gets them going.
And while that may be somewhat of an exaggeration, it kind of isn’t. Men are fascinating in that it takes very little to get them stimulated. And once they get started, there’s no turning back!
If you want to turn up the heat without even coming into physical contact with your man, here is a list of things you can do the next time to turn him on.
1. Infuse some sexy in your outfit
Let your bra strap show. Maybe open up a button (or two) of your top. Or, wear something very form-fitting. If they see your skin or your curves, it will make them think of sex.
2. Build The Mood
“Leave messages around hinting at what you want to do later or send him a sexy picture”. says dating and relationship expert Andrea Syrtash. “The anticipation is arousing for many.”
3. Be Aware Of Body Language
Body language is still one of the most powerful ways to connect. It’s a way to get closer and feel closer just via physical expression, yet without touching. “Maintain eye contact, smile and turn your body towards him if you’re next to each other. Stroke your wine glass gently while you’re talking. These cues signal attraction,” says Syrtash.
4. Talk Dirty
The best way to turn on your boyfriend without touching is by being vocal with what you want. “Saying things like ‘I like it when you do this’ or ‘It really turns me on when you touch me here’ will get him all riled up,” says Susan Colvin, CEO of CalExotics.
5. Have some fun together
Try a pair of vibrating panties. “Slip them on and give him the remote,” says Colvin. “This sense of control will send him over the edge.”
6. Get Your Sext On
Send your man naughty texts throughout the day. This anticipation can lead to a hot and steamy night, says Colvin.
7. Touch Yourself
Masturbating in front of your man is a common fantasy for dudes everywhere, and it’s also a win-win, in that you get pleasured and he learns what makes you come. “He’s getting turned on watching you, and you’re also reaping the benefits. Do it with your fingers, or play with a sleek sex toy, like a multi-erogenous zone massager (which is as visually appealing as it is pleasurable),” says Ron Braverman, CEO of Doc Johnson.
8. Go shopping
Shop for something that you know will give you both a thrill, whether it’s a pair of silky handcuffs, a sex toy you’ve been talking about and wanted to try, or a racy lingerie set. “When he walks into the bedroom, have your surprise purchase out and on display. Show it to him, and watch his face light up. He’ll get the picture… very quickly,” says Braverman.
9. Take care of yourself
Your man will worship your body only when you start treating it as a temple. So, it is time to take a hard look at your looks. Sweat it out at the gym, spend some time at the spa, eat a well-balanced diet and enjoy all those well-deserved raves that follow.
10. A Sexy Voice
There is no man, who will not surrender his weapons to a lady who has a soft and seductive voice. Well girls, it would be a good idea to master the modulation techniques to make your voice soft and sexy. Men do go weak at their knees at the husky sound bytes of their loving partners and its the easiest way to turn on your man.
11. Perfect Lips
Women with luscious lips and a good mouth have always been popular among men. Though most women tend to get over anxious about their lips and do corrective surgeries, a bit of lip art and clever makeup can give you a sexy, full lip appearance. Keep your lips naturally pink, soft and kissable.
12. Smooth feet
So, make sure to keep your feet in good shape with regular massages and pedicures. Neatly painted toe nails and stylish high heel footwear would make your legs sexy and appealing. Showcase your feet and that will surely turn on your partner in no time and that too, without touching!
Here is a naughty tip: Just keep those heels on when you go to bed tonight… just those heels, we mean!