Every guy likes to take their relationship to the next level and for that, one needs to show their girlfriend how much they are loved and needed. If you wish to make your girlfriend feel special, then there are some steps to climb, before you reach that level. For a relationship to flourish and become rich a couple needs to have a great understanding of each other’s needs and wants.
It is very necessary for a guy to have an open mind and an inclination of his girlfriend’s point of view. Only then, you will be able to provide the right kind of rhythm to make her feel loved and needed. In return, your girlfriend will appreciate all your efforts, thoughts and action, and give you that special place in her heart.
Also, read 12 Adorable Gestures To Make Him Feel Loved!
1. Always tell her how great she looks and smells
The very fact you are in a relationship with your girlfriend is because you find her attractive. Hence, never stop or hesitate to tell her how beautiful you find her or when you cuddle up to her, tell her how nice she smells. There’s a scientific reaction within her of feeling loved and needed and her affection towards you will multiply.
2. Leave loving notes for her to discover unexpectedly
Your girlfriend will go crazy when she’s in office and while fiddling with her handbag for a tissue paper, she suddenly to her surprise finds a note saying, ‘Hi! Sweetheart. Love You.’ Well, that’s all it requires to trigger that loved button and make her boast to her colleagues, about how loving of a boyfriend she has.
3. Address her friends with their name
You need to focus carefully on the names of all her friends and make her known, that you listen, whenever she talks about them or gives you an introduction. Therefore it’s very vital to know their names and address to them with their names, rather than referring to them as ‘ the big nose girl,’ or ‘ that fat fellow from the party.’
4. Keep sending her texts
Try and keep sending her texts often and at intervals of 2-3 hours, when she is away from you. These texts should contain all the words of love and affection. Your girlfriend will feel that she is loved and needed by someone, whenever she receives a text from you.
5. Don’t force her to do something
Never ever pressurize your girlfriend to do something out of the way, that she isn’t comfortable doing it. No doubt, she may succumb to your demands and do it, but this will cause resentment within her for you. You may get your way by making her feel guilty, but the result is unhappiness.
6. Give her the TV remote to control for a change
You may care the damn about all those melodramas happening in her beloved show, but she’s interested. Hence, for a change handover the remote control and let her watch the show because somebody’s gonna die in that show. Sit along with her and watch that guy dying, she will feel alive and loved with you around.
7. Give her an unconditional massage
Massage her whether she’s had a hard day or not, without any ulterior motives, but just to make her feel relaxed. Trust me, when you do it without any sexual intention, it is definitely gonna enhance her love, along with a lot of respect for you.
8. Pick up something for her, too
You stop by at a coffee shop for a quick coffee, make sure to pick her favorite cappuccino coffee for her. Well, you see she maybe least expecting you to come home with her favorite coffee and this will give her a surprise thrilling sensation of how much she is loved and thought about.
9. Listen to her patiently
She maybe ventilating all her day’s frustration to you and doing blah-blah, the least you can do is make her feel loved and needed, is by patiently hearing her out. One more thing, never intervene or butt-in when she’s sharing, neither pass an advice or judgment, just empathize with her, not sympathize.
10. Never feel ashamed to kiss her in public
To make her feel more loved and needed, go ahead and without hesitating kiss her in public. She may blush and feel shy, but she will love this gesture from you and will definitely talk to her friends about this. She will understand how proud you are to have her in your life.
11. Go on a shopping spree with her
Usually, a guy feels uncomfortable, but if you want to make her feel loved and needed, go with her for shopping. Be with her, carry her bags, help her to choose her undergarments or clothes, which she can’t decide, without showing any sign of complaint or frustration.
12. Help her with the house chores
Remember, help is always needed for all house chores and it will be highly appreciated if you become a part of it. Wash the dishes, while she’s tidying the bed or go and throw the garbage, while she cleans the dog’s mess. This will show her, how much she is loved and cared and in return, her love will increase more for you.
13. Making her feel secured and assured
Whenever you get her introduced to your friends, relatives, family members, lightly put your arms around her shoulders and pull her towards you. This will not only reassure those people but her too, that how much she means to you. Love will simply blossom through this gesture.
14. You honestly share your feelings with her
Your girlfriend will simply feel special, loved and needed when you share your feelings and experiences with her honestly. They are as interested as you, to know about your daily struggles and frustrations. Hence, sharing your vulnerability gives them an opportunity to comfort and take care of you.
15. Keep a photo of hers in your wallet or your office bag, which she’ll find it some time and feel cherished.
16. Above all, love yourself
She will always love you and the valid reason is that you love yourself. Your girlfriend will observe your confidence, how you value life, how committed you are with your priorities, how you maintain your relationship with your family and friends. When she finds these qualities, then she is reassured that she is with the right guy.