Sex is one thing our parents have always been conscious about. They never actually came out and talked about it openly with us. And this is nothing new that in our childhood we have heard some bizarre stories about how we came into this world. But when puberty had hit us there were a lot of questions we wish we could have talked about with our parents. But nevertheless, we somehow managed to figure out some true meanings.
1. Cuddling right after sex is not a thing.
Guys you gotta go and wash up first, and then you wouldn’t have any energy left to cuddle or talk love. Don’t trust movies. This comes up from personal experience.
2. Sex is messy. Period.
The prim and pristine way of having sex on satin bed sheets, without leaving a stain is just whimsical. I only wish our parents had sat with us and talked about sex openly.
3. Sex is how we came into existence.
Just one day make your parents sit and ask how you came into this world? Observe their reaction and listen to all the tales how fairy godmother came one night and gifted you to them.
4. Our parents did not wear condom to bring us into this world.
Though we already know this. But if they educated us about having protected sex, we would have learnt the necessity of condoms much earlier.
5. Anal and oral actually exist.
When we watch porn, we see this happening there. But somewhere deep inside we never feel like doing it for different reasons. But apparently it exists out of porns also.
Never say no to them. Our parents know how it would have been if nothing experimental existed.
7. Never feel guilty for sex.
We surely need our parents support when others point fingers at us for wrong reasons. They must make us believe that it’s a biological need for adult bodies and nothing is wrong about sex until it’s happening with mutual consent.
8. Talking with your partner about it is important.
That’s the key to good sex. You need to let your partner know what you like and what you are not comfortable with.
9. Sex is not only physical but also emotional.
And anyone trying to tell you the other way is someone you should cut off from your life. And when you find that one person with whom you feel emotionally connected and not only physically attracted, keep him for life. Only I wish our parents told this earlier. Then we would have done fewer mistakes.
10. Orgasm is the best feeling in this world.
Even if our parents didn’t tell us this, we already know it guys. The high we get while orgasming is unmatchable.
11. It takes time to feel good about sex.
Especially women are not easy to satisfy. Give it some time and see how the best come to you.
12. Masturbation should not be a taboo anymore.
People masturbate to reach orgasm, which is the best feeling. So what’s so wrong about it. Parents should stop over-reacting if ever caught their children doing it.