No doubt orgasm is the best part of s3x. The high and excitement we get when we reach the climax is unexplainable. And that is promptly what takes us back to do it again and again. Probably that’s the only reason we want to have s3x. But recently women face difficulty reaching the climax. There can be a whole lot of reasons responsible for this.
1. They are in the learning phase.
To some, it just comes naturally, while some women have to have their body trained to reach orgasm on a regular basis.
2. Some women start believing they can’t.
That’s obviously their misconception. What they need to do that time is relax and clear their mind. Just a little trying hard and it will come.
3. They don’t want to.
Yes, this could be a reason too. It might be a tough day at work, or they are not well or maybe they just don’t feel like having sex. Now if they don’t even feel like having sex how can they have an orgasm?
4. The correct stimulation is required.
Orgasm for women is much different from men. Also, it takes much more time. Women need the stimulation of different types culminates together to reach the climax point.
5. Lack of clitoral stimulation.
Penetration is not the only way for orgasm. You or your partner can make use of your hand for clitoral stimulation along with penetration for ultimate satisfaction.
6. You might be going too quick.
Different women reach orgasm to different stimulations and different times. Some may finish it in minutes while some take hours. Men are needed to be patient in that case and must know the points which can arouse their women.
Orgasm has a direct relation to feelings or connection. And that is why couples have better s3x. Women need to feel emotionally or intellectually connected to their partner to totally give in.
8. Mental absence.
In the midway, the mind can get stuck somewhere else. Or we might get bored while having s3x. It is pretty possible. In such cases orgasming is difficult.
9. Insecurities about their body.
With increasing body shaming, sometimes women feel insecure about their body type. If you are confident about your body obviously you do a better job in the bed, and if you feel shy and low, you cannot reach the perfect climax. It would be like doing the act just for the sake of it.
10. Thinking too much.
It’s a common problem in both men and women. Thinking too much about orgasm will only add up to additional pressure and you will miss out on the actual pleasure. So just go with the flow and don’t worry.
11. They are still recovering from a past trauma.
When s3x becomes a form of violence, the brain adopts the idea that the sexy things can also be threats. In such terrifying situations having an orgasm is next to impossible.