An Excellent Guide For Those Who Wish To Explore The Erotic Art Of BDSM -

An Excellent Guide For Those Who Wish To Explore The Erotic Art Of BDSM


Do you know what BDSM stands for? BDSM means a lot of different things to different people having different tastes, therefore it stands as bondage and discipline (B&D), dominance and submission (D&S), or sadism & masochism (S&M). Many fall into either of the categories, whereas some fall in all. It’s not necessary that people who are psychologically disturbed indulge in BDSM, but even those who are healthy psychologically and have normal sexual interests can explore the erotic art of BDSM by following this excellent guide.

It’s all about living your erotic fantasy by getting down to practice some kinky sex play. There are many out there who are extremely happy with this exciting BDSM role play. This isn’t about blowing your load before the fun has begun in person, but an erotic play that involves bondage, spanking, domination, and other activities that are done in a safe, consensual, and non-abusive manner. And to do all this you need an excellent guide to help you get through it thrillingly and safely.

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1. BDSM should always be done in a good mood and practiced with people you know. Never do it when you’re tired or upset, as the density of risk increases.

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2. This is all about fantasy, so delete reality and both agree ahead of time and plan well the location, the toys, and who wants to be submissive and the dominant one.

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3. Every item, whether latex, leather, toys, whip, candle, handcuffs, costume, fragrance or a temporary tattoo, have a purpose. They all add an excellent concrete and visual innovation in giving your body different feeling during the BDSM play.

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4. Always be prepared for disaster during a BDSM play, therefore keep a first-aid-kit close-by. a fire extinguisher and a flashlight. It’s advisable if you get trained with first-aid and CPR (Cardiopulmonary Resuscitation).

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5. Try and stay within the limits, therefore discuss all limits and sexual erotic anticipation beforehand. Decide who will be dominant, so that the session turns excellent and goes well for both.

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6. Make known the signal or a safeword to be used during the act whether the submissive is all right or whether the act needs to changed, slowed down or stopped.

 

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7. When you get blindfolded, then your other senses are boosted. You can try various objects to give excellent sensations so that the non-blindfolded person has full control of everything and the blindfolded person surrenders all control.

 

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8. Never use toys that have sharp edges or corners. Always round off the instruments used for spanking, whipping, etc.

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9. Make a tender start and then build up the momentum slowly. The direct cause for many problems is due to the rapid increase in the physical or emotional intensity of the BDSM play.

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10. An excellent way to start kinky play is through hair pulling. There is no need of toys, hence, it’s easy and you don’t need a guide. You can either be gentle or rough depending on your mood.

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11. The other excellent pleasurable act you can explore is spanking, which you start off in a tender way and then increase the pressure. Spanking increases blood flow to the buttocks and genital region, which increases pleasure and sensation.

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12. After this to add more excellent pleasure run an ice cube over your bound partner’s spanked buttocks for an overwhelming comforting temperature change. You can also slide the ice cube over their nipples or genitals and follow the icy trail with hot breathing and tongue licks.

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13. Follow a guide on how to strike the whips and paddles only on fleshy and muscled body areas. The kidneys, liver, spleen, or tailbones are all sensitive areas and risky to strike.

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14. Bring in some aggressive language to your BDSM act with a name calling like a whore, jerk, wimp, and f*ck. You can also address one another as ‘Sir’ or ‘Madam’, which allows you to be more involved in your erotic fantasy.

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15. Make it a point to use only soft, plain paraffin candles to explore hot wax play. Harder candles, such as beeswax candles, have a melting point high enough to cause burns.

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16. You can use clothespin as they are adjustable and can be quickly removed. You can try them out on nipples, stomach, and inner thigh, as per your partner’s limits and explore the wild side of kinkiness.

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17. Without prior knowledge and someone to guide, try not to explore piercings or other activities that involve skin breaking, as this is quite painful.

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18. We advise you to let someone tie you up, blindfold you, or gag you as bondage creates dangerous vulnerability. It would be much better if you already had an earlier experience with erotic BDSM that had no bondage involvement.

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19. Never leave a bound person alone, make sure to stay as close to a bound person, in case of an emergency occurring or they faint. Keep a special “paramedic scissors” by the side to cut open the bounds.

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20. Before you guide yourself into the realm of erotic BDSM both people need to be brutally stark honest with each other, as both need to know who you are, what you want, what you need, and what you don’t wish to explore.

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21. After every act, make sure to clean all toys and keep them organized and properly stored. When you use these toys understand their limits and all safety measures.

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22. To explore BDSM you require surrendering your control in totality and this is only possible with 100% trust and open communication.

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