When we meet someone we like, our mind constantly tries to decide whether or not the person feels the same for us. While some people are really good at detecting vibes and reading body language, people like us can’t really do anything but wait. Women, especially, don’t easily vocal about what they like or dislike. They throw indications and you must be smart and quick enough to get a hold of that. A number of physiological studies reveal that women know within the first five minutes that whether or not he’s the one for them. So all you have, boys, is 300 seconds to let her decide whether or not you’ll floor her for the rest of the night and continue taking her to lovely dates.
1. She’ll Check You Out
Of course, women do check out men. It’s not really a big thing, but the fact that they do it subtly is what makes them different. As I said, you’ll have to be quick to catch her staring at you and once you do that, smile because level 1 cleared.
2. If It Rains Compliments
She’ll not necessarily continue bragging about your looks or attire but she will compliment your hair, clothes or the perfume you’re wearing. She’ll do this if you have presented yourself quite well. While this may not offer certainty that she is into you, it would definitely be a step forward.
3. A Sparkled Smile
It is quite easy to spot on the difference between a fake and a genuine smile. If the girl you’re out with has a sparkle in her eyes with her cheeks widening as you see, then she might have found you attractive enough. But for all the fake pleasantries, you could easily know they are no more interested.
4. Questions. A Lot Of Questions
Mark these words if she isn’t interested then she won’t even move forward to ask anything other than the basic shit. But if she is, then her interest would be more gravitated towards knowing you better. If even the smallest details are what she’s asking for, you might have been successful in impressing her.
5. Body Language Says It All
Body language is the easiest thing to get to know what’s in her mind within the first five minutes. If she’s sitting comfortably, it means she trusts you. If she’s maintaining an eye contact while smiling, well, she’s interested. But if her body language seems awkward or weird, she’s probably in a ‘no fucks given’ zone.
6. Sense Of Approval
A girl would throw subtle hints if she is attracted by your gestures. She might start off by acting all cool but if she’s into you, she won’t take it long to be at her ease and will definitely hint you of her sense of approval.
Choose your words wisely as she’s hearing and storing it all up, no matter she’s into you or not. Now that stored data goes to trash or takes you to her heart depends on how well you say it.
8. Non-verbal Communication
Yes, it definitely has an important part to play on your first date. Researchers reveal that if a girl is into you, she will mimic your actions like placing her hand in the same position as yours, synchronizing blinks with yours, etc. She might throw hints like these within the very first five minutes, all you gotta do is be attentive.