Sexting is when you exchange sexual text messages or sometimes even photos with another person. Sexting is something a lot of people do these days. If you are new to this, you better learn some skills before it goes horribly wrong.Because when it goes wrong, it can be a big turn off, sometimes embarrassing also. Sexting rules can turn out to be your life saver when in long distance relationships, they keep it going and pretty much keep the relationship alive.
Here are some life saver sexting rules to make your sexting experiences optimal.
Test before you sext; be 100% sure that the person you are sexting, would reciprocate with the same level enthusiasm. You would want to know whether the person is interested and is comfortable with engaging in sexual activity. You don’t want to make a fool out of yourself.
Start with a little bit of light flirting, keep it casual. If the person reacts in a flirtatious way, you can intensify your flirting and start sexting gradually. Flirting should be your base for sexting. Remember, after getting the green signal, do not sext immediately. Keep your flirting strong while you start slipping in your sexts slowly.
One thing that can ruin your sexting is that badass “autocorrect”. Try to contain your excitement, read your sext before you hit enter. You don’t want your, “I want to f*ck you” to come out as, “I want to duck you”. It is very important to read your sext first rather than regret later. Follow the rules because they are you life saver.
Just like autocorrect, grammar is very important. You should know the difference between ‘your’ and ‘you’re’, ‘then’ and ‘than’. If the person turns out to be a grammar nazi, it’s going to be even more worse. Because whatever the person reads is what they are going to hear in their head. Take you time in sending your sext. Always follow the life saver rules!
Now that you know how to sext, you would want to up your level. And that is sexting with photos! You may know how to send decent sexts, decent and sext don’t go together, but anyway, sending photos while sexting is where the danger zone actually begins. But there is nothing to freak out! You always learn.
Do not, never, ever, send out nude pictures unsolicited. No body wants to wake up in the morning and find out that a d*ck pic is waiting to greet them! That’s so messed up. If the person is not yet ready for sexting with photos, and you send them one, there are high chances of you getting blocked.
And when it’s the other way around, let’s say that you want the person with whom you’re sexting to send you nudes, don’t push it. Do not beg for pictures or use phrases like, “please, come one, just one picture”. You’ll come across as a desperate. Never lose your dignity. In some cases, when the other person is a girl, she’ll play with you. Girls like it when you beg for things, it makes them feel superior and you won’t be getting nudes anytime soon. So just relax a little bit. If they want to give it to you, they will eventually.
This one is really important, specially for women. Once you sent your nude into your sext, you have no control over it, it’s out of your hands now. There are very high chances it will be seen by somebody else also. So always follow the rule, “no faces”. Even if your partner is dead serious about you but has interfering friends, chances are that there might be more than one person satisfying himself while looking at your picture. And if your partner turns out to be an asshole, he may make an MMS with those nudes and upload them, make them viral. Anything could go wrong. It’s not worth the risk. And now you know what is your life saver!
Try not using very common pick up lines. Make your own pick up line. Be more descriptive and creative. Do not let vocabulary be a limitation. Use a Thesaurus if you fall short for words. Follow sexting rules.
Ever heard of ‘Drunk dialled an Ex’! Obviously you have, and that’s cute sometimes but not when in comes to sexting. Getting a bit tipsy is fine, it adds intensity to your sext. But getting drunk to an extent where you can’t even pee straight and sexting is a big “NO”. Being uninhibited is a good thing, but not to the extent of embarrassment. So basically, alcohol and sexting is a bad idea!.
Always sext the person you are supposed to sext. Over excitement can be fatal! Before you even realize you made a blunder, you’ve already sent a picture of your d*ck to you mother! She’s already got a mini heart attack and at the same time is wondering that her son has indeed “grown up” or “grown big”! Even worse if you send nudes to a group and you’d want to kill yourself if it was a family group.
Patience is the key, if you did not get sexted today, you will some other day, just lay off and have faith. Talk dirty and never stop learning.