We hear every day new relationships are taking place, but we also hear a lot of couples separating, breaking up or getting divorced. A relationship doesn’t last too long as there are many common reasons attached with it, they are not the same person when they had met. Because people in relationships change over time, with their thoughts, goals, ideas, and appearances.
Therefore maintaining relationships is a challenge. Nobody wants to sacrifice a part of themselves for someone else, and neither they are willing to make that effort in maintaining that relationship, which is very necessary.
From the beginning, if you start out not trusting each other, like checking his phone, browsing his social media pages for clues about what he’s really up to and having suspicious behaviors that exhibit a lack of trust, possible that this pattern will remain right through the entire relationship, which will become difficult to sustain over time.
Insecurity is like cancer to any relationship, as this is an internal problem that negatively affects the relationship. Sharing with each other the problem and getting to the roots of it, is very important. This is one of the common reasons why relationships don’t last.
3. Lack of commitment
Every relationship requires true commitment, not only being monogamous but also to love, to share, to overcome the monotonous feeling of staying with the same person, to change and support one another in hard times. When these common reasons don’t exist in a relationship, then chances are that it will not last too long.
Communication plays a crucial role in relationships, to understand each another. When there are disagreements with each other and they don’t sit for a productive conversation, each is staying apart with their ego coming in-between. Earlier when you’re dating, each would have long conversations on childhood, on crazy plans and dreams, just about anything. why not now? A primary reason why couples don’t last too long and have a break-up.
5. Early $3x
When s3x happens early in a relationship, it carries many complications later. Early $3x doesn’t prove a healthy relationship, but first getting to know a person is very important. This helps avoid $3xual monotonous creeping in early. A balance needs to be maintained with $3x in a relationship. Just jumping in bed is not a relationship.
6. Carrying The Past
We all have had issues in the past. Nothing kills a relationship faster than the past that we carry. Holding onto the past, throwing each other’s past to one another, every time there is an altercation or argument. We must learn to forgive and forget whatever they may have done in the past that have hurt us and live and love in the present.
7. Bad Habits
Honestly, we all have some bad habits that require change, but unfortunately, some bad habits won’t appear until some time when a relationship has been formed and become comfortable. This habit then annoys the other partner and they just cannot tolerate it, then things start to go haywire and the relationship doesn’t last too long.